couponing - grrrr

Ok yes the ER visit and all that came after that is exhaustiung me but I am also trying to learn how to coupon and wooooooooooo I am tried.  Have you seen the show on TLC called extreme couponing ok I am not getting even close to the magic they do so is there a show called couponing 101 or couponing for dummies. Ohhhh I so want to save $ - HELP!  Anyone out there coupon? Do you have any tips, secrets, help, etc?