indecisive - help

I know I am lucky to have these be my struggles right now. Lord knows it could be much worse.  But the truth is I feel so indecisive on these things so I figured why not try to get some opinions.  I seem to be struggling to make a decision so please comment here on the blog or e-mail me if you can offer an opinion.  I am all ears/eyes.
#1 = If I should transition Laney from her crib to a big girl bed (her crib coverts into a toddler bed - thanks Auntie Dawn).  She has never attempted to climb out of her crib.  For those BTDT what signs did you look for that it was time to make the change?  How old was your little one when you made the change?  How did it go?  Any tips on the transition?
#2 = If I should get Laney her 1st haircut.  I say yes I should 1 day and no no no I can't the next day.  I love the wispy curl ups on the sides.  I love the wavy curls on the ends.  But the back does look like it might need some help.  Her hair is thin and she does not have a lot of it compared to other children her age.  For those BTDT how old was your little one when you did it?  What made you decide to do it or why did you wait?  Any tips?
#3 = What should I give up for Lent? Why can't I decide? If you participate in Lent please help. What have you done in the past for Lent?

Sorry for this brief interuption of cute Laney photos but her Momma is indecisive this week and I need help!